Flexible Girl - Incredible and Unbelievable

Have you ever asked yourself, "where is there to meet nice women?"

I am here to tell you that nice women are ALL OVER THE PLACE.

The big thing you need to do is improve YOUR RADAR.

Too many times as guys we overrate her "niceness" based on our attraction to her.

We say all the time on the dating women radio show that I co-host that guys "rush into rejection" but that could just as easily be turned to say that they "rush into a bad situation."

If what I am about to say does not apply to you, then congratulations, you are in the top 10 percent of guys in the world.

Unfortunately, 90 percent of the men will overlook a lot of faults that a woman has if they are super attracted to her and she is treating them all right, but not great.

You need to learn what to look for and you need to learn to go slow.

Some tips?

You want a flexible giver

Is she low key? Does she roll with the punches? Does she do nice things for you without being asked? Is she easy to be around?

You probably have a flexible giver on your hands! If you are going to be with a woman long term, having someone that is flexible in their personality and approach to life combined with a giving spirit is a WINNER.

Do NOT move too fast

Any woman can be a flexible giver over the short term. How many times has a former girlfriend been great in the beginning and then hell on wheels as time went on? Make sure to do your due diligence and observe her over the long term.

We teach guys not to decide on if she should be your girlfriend for at least 2 months. Do not even consider marriage until you hit the 2 year mark.

How does she treat people she DOES NOT need? How does she treat animals?

Over this period of time (2 month mark to make her your girlfriend and 2 year mark to make her your wife) observe how she interacts with people that will not make a difference in her life one way or the other. It is EASY to treat your biggest client or boss with super duty respect and kindness but how about the person serving you lunch in the restaurant or the maid cleaning up your hotel room? The character of a person is revealed how they treat people they do not need.

Dovetailing on that is how she interacts with animals. I am NOT saying she has to love dogs if she does not really like them, but you should at least see she is kind around the animal she interacts with, even if she does not particularly care for them.

There is no substitute for kindness/sweetness.


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