he "check out" or "once over", it is an important part of flirting with a girl. When done right you are expressing a healthy interest in a woman. You can make her feel sexy and attractive with a glance. Done wrong and it can go very bad very fast. In this article I will give you a quick idea of some ways that you can properly check a girl out without coming off like a pervert.
How to check out girls, ways not to look at women
Be honest with yourself, we guys are pretty bad at checking out attractive women. We start at their face and move down. If the girl is endowed in any way, shape or form our gaze can stop right there. It is possible at this point to get caught in a vortex of staring that is impossible to recover from. You know it already but getting caught staring at a woman's breasts is not something to engender a positive flirty vibe from her.
Checking out women the right way. How not to get caught staring
Since you know the chest area is going to be a tough area to get past, try to save that for last. When you see a girl meet your gaze first thing to do is get eye contact from her. Rather than traveling down immediately through the danger zone go to her feet and slowly let your gaze travel up. A couple of seconds is a long time but ensure the whole process does not go longer. Speed past the breasts, I know that is what you want to see but it is a danger zone fraught with peril and danger for the time being. When you reach her eyes again (should be about 2 seconds) give her a smile, and if she is particularly good looking a nod. That is it. You have given her a checkout and an appraisal without seeming too creepy and hopefully conveyed that you find her attractive.
Strike while the iron is hot, after the "check out", move in for some seduction and flirting
There is no reason to wait after that move up to her and start a conversation. The longer you wait to try to make your move the less natural it comes off and it will make you seem less confident and attractive.
Click Here for a few ideas on things you can do once you approach the girl that will increase attraction. The "check out" or "once over" though not an essential tool for picking up women, is a tool that you can add to your tool-bag. Done wrong it can be disastrous though, so practice it until you get the right level of intent without any creepiness.
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